There are some things that you should always keep in mind when starting any kind of anal play.
Your rectum and anal opening don’t produce natural lubrication. Always check that you used an appropriate amount of lube every time you penetrate yourself anally.
It is totally unacceptable to use anal toy for penetrating of both anus and vagina without cleaning it first. This may lead to a serious vaginal infection. Never forget to clean your toy after using it on your anus. Another way out is to use a condom while playing with your toy. Then, everything you need is to change the condom and your toy is safe for vaginal penetration.
Use other types of stimulation during anal penetration because it enhances the enjoyment. For example, a woman can add clitoris stimulation (manually or with vibrator), while men can stoke his penis or pull on testicles.
Best Positions for Anal Play
There are different pretty comfortable positions for anal penetration but every person prefers his/her own favorite. Some people like it on their backs with their legs up. This position gives them feeling of openness, as their genitalia are totally available for all kinds of additional stimulation. Others prefer to be anally penetrated being on their knees (doggie style), because it’s easier for them to stimulate themselves in this position. There are people who find it more comfortable lying on their side. This position gives the feeling of intimacy. That is why I would suggest to experiment with different positions and find your own favorite.
Best Way of Anal Toys Insertion
Before inserting a butt plug lube it thoroughly, and then find the right angle moving it up towards the front of the body. Slowly twist it while inserting the thickest part. Remove it the same way, twisting upon removing of the thickest part.
If you are using a ribbed plug, it’s better to insert one rib at a time. Same tactics applies for removing of ribbed butt plug. Once you have inserted a rib hold on for a while, then do a bit of twisting, as if teasing, then insert another.
Dildo or vibrator must be inserted similar to butt plugs-slow and smooth, listening to your body’s reactions, holding still for a while. Be gentle while thrusting and if you play with your partner always ask what she/he likes. Vary the speed, the depth, the angle of penetration. And take into account that the dildo for anal play must have testicles, and vibrator must have a flared base. Rectum has a characteristic of sucking things into it, therefore be very careful.
When playing with anal beads you can insert it one at a time. Actually it is the best way both for insertion and removal if you are a beginner. Later you can experiment by removing all beads at once, playing with different sensations but it’s better to take care about your safety while you are still inexperienced.
But whatever you choose, always remember about safety, because anal tissue is very gentle and sensitive and can be easily hurt.
